I was talking to a good friend today about some new developments in her life. She had just received word about a couple of individuals who have resurfaced in her area and have been known to cause drama in her life in the past. She was a bit frantic about the idea of them colluding together to find her and her husband so that they could work in concert to exact some more drama into their life.
“What do you think we should do?” she asked. I politely responded, “If drama makes an attempt to find you, just be nice. Be nice until it’s no longer appropriate to be nice then ask for help from the proper authorities. In the meantime don’t start freaking out and let hypothetical and potential problems of the future negatively affect your joy and happiness in the present.”
Simply put, don’t waste time worrying in advance about future negative possibilities that may never become reality. I further reminded her that “Worry” is a cunning, sneaky, professional thief that is highly proficient at accosting individuals and robbing and depriving them of their joy and happiness in the present moments of life. She immediately voiced her understanding and gratitude and agreed to hold on to her happiness in the moment.
Honestly, it’s conversations like these that really fire me up and get my juices for life flowing. These types of conversations serve as a reminder for me as well. I call them “Power-Chats”. I sincerely believe that power chats on a regular basis with other individuals that are “goal-getters” and “dream-driven” and are looking to better themselves is an absolute must to keep your edge and focus in this “Life” thing. Trying to brave the storm of life by yourself can be a daunting task to say the least. Life has shown me that the constant noise of negativity and drama of the world around us can beat us up and cause severe damage to one’s psyche if left unchecked by an occasional power chat.
So I invite you to consider forming a strategic alliance relationship with several like-mind and quality friends and family members that can serve in the role of mutual encourager. A relationship where you both are mutual champions of each other’s success and wellbeing. A relationship that mutually nourishes and uplifts and affirms each other in the best of times and the not-so-best of times. When it comes to combating pervasive drama and negativity there’s definitely safety in numbers.
So let’s grow our strategic alliances and leverage the potent power and possibilities of the prolific “Power-Chat” on a regular basis. Now you have no excuse not to make it GREAT!
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