Talking about seizing the moment and Making it GREAT.  Last night we arrived at the movie theater a little early for a change.  As we were walking to the ticket booth I looked to my right and saw a perfectly cast shadow of me and my son Cedric Jr. on the wall of the building.  Most people would think, “No big deal” right?  But we’re definitely not “Most People.”

“Hey Look!” I said, “A perfect size shadow.”  I then broke into my best Pop-lock dance move from the 80’s.  Seconds later I stopped and pointed at Little “C” and right on queue he started gyrating and delivering his best “Chris Brown” moves.  At this time I felt an overwhelming duty not to let Generation “Y” think for one minute that they’ve created better dance moves then Generation “X.”  So I pulled out my secret weapon.  The incomparable Michael Jackson.  Yes that’s right folks, the “Smooth Criminal” told little “Billie Jean” to “Beat it.”

During all the mayhem I didn’t realize that we’d created an audience of spectators who were in the long lines laughing and enjoying the free show.  I was still prepared to keep going but generation “Y” figured he had enough for now.  Laughter, smiles and trash-talk continued for a few more minutes as we headed to take our place in the line.

It’s times like these that I truly enjoy the most.  Yes, we could’ve let that moment slip away but we took it captive and made a great little memory.  It wasn’t the first time and it definitely won’t be the last.  Generation “X” won this round, but I fully expect generation “Y” to come charging back soon with guns and new dance-moves a-blazing.  And, you can bet I’ll be ready for the next showdown in the dark.

Actually Showdown Shadow Dancing is kind of fun.  You should try it sometime.  Don’t miss your opportunity to make those great memories and moments.  This is a pretty sweet breadcrumb to making this good life, GREAT!

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Have you ever stepped on a scale and started giving the weight of your clothes too much credit?  Well, don’t feel like you’re alone.  Many people occasionally fall victim by slipping and falling into that notorious river of denial.

If the shoe fits this one, please allow me to issue a tiny bit of unsolicited advice.  Things will never change until you truly make a commitment to change.  That’s right, our clothes don’t struggle with weight, we do.  And things won’t get better until we get better.

Don’t plot to kill the messenger on this one today.  Make this the year you buck up and stand up and say “NO MORE!” to swimming laps in that notorious river of denial and do what’s necessary to obtain the outcome you want for yourself.  Then, permanently install some daily lifestyle habits and disciplines that will help you sustain your desired outcome.

Inspiration may get you out of your seat and Motivation may get you out of the door but only properly applied Education can lead you to your desired Transformation.

So get your hands on some tools that can Inspire, Motivate, Encourage and Educate you in the days ahead.  Set your goals high and take massive consistent action and watch what happens.  Let’s go Make it GREAT!

I invite you to add my Book, “Bread Crumbs to Making it GREAT,” to your collection today and start crafting your tomorrow.  A page a day goes a looooong way.  Can I get a witness!!!  🙂    www.MakeItGreatNOW.com

“SHUT UP!!!”  Two words that I find myself using quite often when I hear that ever-so-quiet and persistent little voice inside my head telling me to give up because no one cares about the difference I’m trying to make in this world.

“GET OUT OF THE WAY!!!” Is my favorite five word phrase that I tell those naysayers who are attempting to stand in between me and my noble and just cause or goal or dream.

“WATCH ME!!!”  Are the two words I love to yell at the top of my voice at those who dare to tell me that I can’t do GREAT things in this world.

Yes my friends, tough words are needed for tough times and tough situations.  If you find yourself experiencing a bit of turbulence from naysayers on your ascension to those higher heights on your life’s journey, feel free to borrow a few of my favorite words and phrases to get you over the hill and through the woods.

Yes you CAN make a BIG difference in your community.  Yes your noble and just cause and goals and dreams ARE worthy of your best efforts, and absolutely YES YOU CAN do GREAT THINGS in this world!

So be encouraged today, stay positive and keep pushing forward as you attempt to make it GREAT in the days ahead.

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So I’m hanging out at the park last night playing basketball with my four group-home boys.  A bit of light rain had scared off all the others for the day, but it takes much more than that to get rid of me and my boys.

After about two hours of basketball and other activities I found myself chasing down the basketball as it rolled off the court and into an adjacent grassy area.  As I reached down to scoop up the ball, I noticed in plain sight a folded twenty-dollar-bill.

“Wow!  Look what I found!” I said.  The boys ran over to me and started screaming in elation as if we had just won the lottery.  Immediately they stated, “Let’s go to Wal-Greens and buy some candy and stuff.”  I then asked if they had any other suggestions.  After a few seconds of silence one of them said, “What do you mean?”

“Well, what do you guys think about blessing someone who could really use a little money for food.” I said.  Hmmm…  Another few seconds of silence, then, the little one said, “RED!!!  LET’S GO GIVE IT TO RED!!!”  Red is our homeless friend who lives in a secluded area of the park and he’s always kind to me and my boys.

So, at eight o’clock at night my boys sprinted off into the darkness with me behind them running for the fenced, sump area that leads to Red’s home.

I must admit that the first thought that came to my mind as I witnessed this was, “What better example of a cheerful giver can you have than this?”  You see, their true intent was not to give expecting or looking for something in return.  They were genuinely looking to give without want.  Hmmm…  What a lesson from four pre-teens.  From the mouths of babes and the innocent hearts of children.  I think they “got it.”  🙂

I invite you to be mindful of the spirit in which you decide to give this year and every year after.  For a cheerful giver that truly gives without an ulterior motive or intent of want will be blessed with much.

Oh, and Red was extremely happy to be on the receiving end of their kind gesture.  Don’t miss your opportunities to make this good life “GREAT!”

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Ready or not here it comes.  The new year is upon us.  New resolutions, new promises and new expectations abound but don’t be surprised if 2014 rolls around and nothing has really changed for you.

I learned a little-known secret a while ago.  Well, actually it’s not really a secret at all but most people don’t pay much attention to it.  Over the years I’ve been able to reduce it down to an easy-to-understand formula.  I call it the D8 Formula.  I invite you to consider it’s validity in the days ahead.

D8 means “Doing Daily Disciplines Daily Develops Dominance & Determines Destiny.”  Simply put, the things that you choose to do today and everyday hereafter will determine your destiny tomorrow.  If you commit to do those things today that most won’t you will eventually be able to do those things tomorrow that most don’t.

Choose to be the exception this year and incorporate those new disciplines in your day and watch what happens.  Or don’t expect anything to be different at years end.  Your 2013 can truly be Great if you commit to make it that way.  The process is pretty simple but it aint always easy.

So set those positive daily disciplines this year and stay the course and let’s make this year AWESOME!!!  😉

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