Talking about seizing the moment and Making it GREAT.  Last night we arrived at the movie theater a little early for a change.  As we were walking to the ticket booth I looked to my right and saw a perfectly cast shadow of me and my son Cedric Jr. on the wall of the building.  Most people would think, “No big deal” right?  But we’re definitely not “Most People.”

“Hey Look!” I said, “A perfect size shadow.”  I then broke into my best Pop-lock dance move from the 80’s.  Seconds later I stopped and pointed at Little “C” and right on queue he started gyrating and delivering his best “Chris Brown” moves.  At this time I felt an overwhelming duty not to let Generation “Y” think for one minute that they’ve created better dance moves then Generation “X.”  So I pulled out my secret weapon.  The incomparable Michael Jackson.  Yes that’s right folks, the “Smooth Criminal” told little “Billie Jean” to “Beat it.”

During all the mayhem I didn’t realize that we’d created an audience of spectators who were in the long lines laughing and enjoying the free show.  I was still prepared to keep going but generation “Y” figured he had enough for now.  Laughter, smiles and trash-talk continued for a few more minutes as we headed to take our place in the line.

It’s times like these that I truly enjoy the most.  Yes, we could’ve let that moment slip away but we took it captive and made a great little memory.  It wasn’t the first time and it definitely won’t be the last.  Generation “X” won this round, but I fully expect generation “Y” to come charging back soon with guns and new dance-moves a-blazing.  And, you can bet I’ll be ready for the next showdown in the dark.

Actually Showdown Shadow Dancing is kind of fun.  You should try it sometime.  Don’t miss your opportunity to make those great memories and moments.  This is a pretty sweet breadcrumb to making this good life, GREAT!

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Was laying in bed the other night next to wifey as she had just returned from the bathroom.  “So, you’re no longer going to make an effort to put the toilet set down?” She asked.  Caught completely off guard, after a few seconds of silence I nearly let out an audible laugh until I realized she may be serious.

Just to be sure I asked, “Are you serious?”  “Yessss… Every since we watched that movie with Cameron Diaz and Ashton Kutcher (“What happens in Vegas”) you’ve been leaving the toilet seat up.” She said.  I still wasn’t sure so again I asked, “Are you really serious?”  Then she gave me the “look.”  You know the one.  The one that says, “Don’t mess with me.” to put it lightly.  

I then thought to myself, “Ok, now I can laugh because she’s really serious and this is definitely funny.”  So laugh I did… But she wasn’t smiling.  “Uh ohhh…  I need to reel it in and tone it down a second before this gets heated.” I thought.  Deep breath and composure… More »

Have you ever stepped on a scale and started giving the weight of your clothes too much credit?  Well, don’t feel like you’re alone.  Many people occasionally fall victim by slipping and falling into that notorious river of denial.

If the shoe fits this one, please allow me to issue a tiny bit of unsolicited advice.  Things will never change until you truly make a commitment to change.  That’s right, our clothes don’t struggle with weight, we do.  And things won’t get better until we get better.

Don’t plot to kill the messenger on this one today.  Make this the year you buck up and stand up and say “NO MORE!” to swimming laps in that notorious river of denial and do what’s necessary to obtain the outcome you want for yourself.  Then, permanently install some daily lifestyle habits and disciplines that will help you sustain your desired outcome.

Inspiration may get you out of your seat and Motivation may get you out of the door but only properly applied Education can lead you to your desired Transformation.

So get your hands on some tools that can Inspire, Motivate, Encourage and Educate you in the days ahead.  Set your goals high and take massive consistent action and watch what happens.  Let’s go Make it GREAT!

I invite you to add my Book, “Bread Crumbs to Making it GREAT,” to your collection today and start crafting your tomorrow.  A page a day goes a looooong way.  Can I get a witness!!!  🙂    www.MakeItGreatNOW.com

I ’ve never really been a big believer in magic. But, I do believe in magical moments and I’ve realized the minute you come into agreement with that marriage spouse or significant other and make your personal “I” needs and wants secondary to a common cause and shared “We” goals of the team, it’s then that a magical moment is created.

Over the years my wife and I have had the awesome privilege of visiting with several other couples who had at one time been in crisis and were ill-affected by what I call the “I-Me” Syndrome, but later cured the affliction with the “Us-We” Formula.  This “I-Me” Syndrome is really subtle at first, but if left untreated and unchecked it can eventually grow into a full-blown, stage-4 relationship killer.

Many relationships have fallen victim to this not-so-silent killer and there’s absolutely no doubt that there’s many, many more to come.  But we emphatically say today that there is hope.  So, take heart today and know that the “Us-We” Formula is capable of eradicating and eliminating this disease without prejudice.

So we invite you today to find something that you and that special someone can do together and each one of you should be sure to make the other’s primary needs and wants priority.  Make sure that you’re not just on the same page in this “life” and “relationship” thing but also reading from the same books.

“Us-We” over “I-Me” is the key to increasing your chances of winning together.  Oh, and this concept is not limited to just relationships, it is equally as impactful in every facet of business and the business of life.  This unsung formula can and will deliver phenomenal results if you just commit to apply it in and on the infected areas of your life, guaranteed.

So why don’t “We” go out and create our magical moments by applying this “Us-We” Formula in our lives as we attempt to make it GREAT!  Yes, this is a breadcrumb of wisdom that maybe small in size but it’s big in results.

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“SHUT UP!!!”  Two words that I find myself using quite often when I hear that ever-so-quiet and persistent little voice inside my head telling me to give up because no one cares about the difference I’m trying to make in this world.

“GET OUT OF THE WAY!!!” Is my favorite five word phrase that I tell those naysayers who are attempting to stand in between me and my noble and just cause or goal or dream.

“WATCH ME!!!”  Are the two words I love to yell at the top of my voice at those who dare to tell me that I can’t do GREAT things in this world.

Yes my friends, tough words are needed for tough times and tough situations.  If you find yourself experiencing a bit of turbulence from naysayers on your ascension to those higher heights on your life’s journey, feel free to borrow a few of my favorite words and phrases to get you over the hill and through the woods.

Yes you CAN make a BIG difference in your community.  Yes your noble and just cause and goals and dreams ARE worthy of your best efforts, and absolutely YES YOU CAN do GREAT THINGS in this world!

So be encouraged today, stay positive and keep pushing forward as you attempt to make it GREAT in the days ahead.

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